Why You should count on the person you live with to help you with money. You should also think of the stress this put on your Mom. My baby does drugs. Your Father Will Be Next! Get your Act Together! Your parents didn't plan on supporting you after you started your own family! You Are 40! They should have cut you off years ago. Now they feel they are helping you go a the wrong path. They probably don't like your roommate either! This is the reason I didn't have Children! Remember, That this message as a way of thinking the way they might think.